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Starting conversations, building real connections, and showing up as your authentic self on dating apps.

Authenticity

"Just be yourself": what it really means on dating apps

How much should you open up and type what you really want to say? Will being too authentic scare matches away? Part two of our series untangles the tension every dater feels.

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AI & Dating

AI isn't writing your messages, it's a chat coach in your corner

There is a voice in the back of your head saying getting help with that first message is cheating. Part three of the series makes the case that support and authenticity are not opposites.

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First-date psychology, texting tips, and more

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