Starting conversations, building real connections, and showing up as your authentic self on dating apps.
You matched with someone amazing. Their profile made you smile. And yet you are staring at a blank message box, paralysed. Here is the uncomfortable truth about why that happens, and why it is not your fault.
Read articleHow much should you open up and type what you really want to say? Will being too authentic scare matches away? Part two of our series untangles the tension every dater feels.
Read articleThere is a voice in the back of your head saying getting help with that first message is cheating. Part three of the series makes the case that support and authenticity are not opposites.
Read articleWe are writing the series we wish we had when we started dating online. New pieces on conversation, confidence, and connection are coming. Join the waitlist to get them first.
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